Blog Title: Feeling Stuck or Scared to Show Up? Here's How to Start Building Confidence on Social Media (Even if You’re Not Sure What Your Next Career Move Is)
Have you ever found yourself staring at your phone thinking, “I want to post. I want to be seen. But I have no idea where to begin”? Or maybe you feel like you should be doing something more with your life or business… yet the fear of putting yourself out there is louder than your dreams.
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. I’ve spoken to so many people around the world who feel completely unsure of their next step. Whether you’re launching a new business, changing careers, or simply craving more freedom and confidence, this post is for you.
Why Showing Up Online Feels So Hard (and What You Can Do About It)
Let’s be honest—judgment is scary. Especially when it’s from people you know. That one family member who always has something to say. The old classmate who still follows you. The fear isn’t irrational—it’s real. But the longer you wait to show up, the more you delay the visibility, growth, and opportunity that could change your life.
My Personal Journey: What I Got Wrong (and What Finally Worked)
When I started on social media, I was completely overwhelmed. I overthought every caption, every image, every video. I had no idea how to speak on camera or what kind of content would resonate. I spent months trying to copy what others were doing—instead of finding my own voice.
The breakthrough? Realising that confidence isn’t something you wait for—it’s something you build by showing up scared and doing it anyway. Once I made peace with imperfect action, everything shifted.
Feeling Lost in Your Career? Try This Framework:
This simple set of prompts has helped countless people get unstuck:
What do people often ask you for help with?
What topics light you up when you talk about them?
What kind of content do you consume consistently?
What’s one small, low-pressure action you could take this week that moves you closer to that area?
You don’t need a five-year plan. You just need one clear step forward.
5 Quick Tips to Start Showing Up Online:
Choose one platform to start with (Instagram and TikTok are great options)
Use Stories first—they’re low-pressure and disappear after 24 hours
Use voiceovers or captions if you’re not ready to speak on camera yet
Batch content when you’re feeling confident so you stay consistent
Focus on progress, not perfection
Let’s Talk Meta Ads: The Visibility Tool Most People Ignore
If you want to grow, sell out appointments, or scale your online business—understanding Meta ads is essential. Organic reach is shrinking. Paid ads are the fastest, most cost-effective way to reach the right people.
Inside my main course, I walk you through setting up your own ads—without hiring an agency or spending thousands testing the wrong strategies. If you want visibility that converts, this is a game-changer.
Not Ready for the Full Course Yet? Start with the Mini.
My Mini Course was designed for beginners and anyone stuck in fear or self-doubt. In just 7 short lessons, you’ll:
Learn how to show up on video without the pressure to post
Get comfortable recording yourself
Build self-belief through simple mindset shifts
Learn how to reflect and review without tearing yourself down
By the end, you’ll feel lighter, more confident—and ready to take the next step.
Final Thoughts: You’re Not Too Late to Start Over
If you’ve been feeling directionless, scared to be visible, or like you're meant for more but don’t know how to start—this is your invitation. You are not too late. You’re not too quiet. You’re not too unsure. You simply haven’t had the right support yet.
Let this be your turning point.
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Your future self will be so proud you started today.
